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{Book Review!} Look at You, Girl

5/30/2019

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Earlier this month, in honor of our 6th anniversary as an organization - WHAT!? Time flies y'all!! - we hosted a virtual book club and read through the book, Look at You, Girl by Caitlin Zick. 

To catch you up about the book before our review: Look at You, Girl is the kickstart to seeing yourself the way God does. The book is designed to be read in one week, one chapter a day, each chapter taking about 30 minutes to read with a soul work page at the end of the day. And since together is always better, the author is very intentional about readers working through the book in a "We Week" - the week we will do this kickstart! Our virtual book club had a great turn out, with twenty-six women joining us for We Week. 

Our Prayer Going Into Book Club

Our prayer was that each reader take bits and pieces from the book and fit them into their own puzzle. Growth takes time; may there be patience in the process and in the unknowing. 
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​These are Our Thoughts

Okay, I'll be honest here; writing a book review for a book written to reach one's soul where they are at is hard because my soul is in a quite different place than yours, friend. With that in mind, here's some thoughts to keep in mind when you read through the book with your tribe. 
  • Take notes that fuel you, not hinder you. Listen to our podcast, here for more tips about note taking. 
  • Like any book, you may not agree 100% with the author and that's okay! You will bring more value to your personal growth by highlighting what you resonate with than what you disagree with. 
  • Recommended Materials: Your Bible, your journal, and a pen/highlighter. 
  • Each chapter takes about a half an hour to read; I scheduled an hour for each chapter so I could read it (and re-read sections if needed) and spend time working through the soul work at the end of each chapter too. 

My Review of the Book
Go chat with anyone else who's read it and I bet you'll get a different review ;)

  • I never felt like I was participating another Bible study, but part of a community even though it was unseen. Shoutout to the concept of We Week! 
  • I appreciated that the chapters built off of one another, laying a foundation for the next day. 
  • My favorite chapter was Day Three, Word Wednesday. I'm a words of affirmation girl so this day really spoke to me and forced me to dig deep. Here's a sneak peak of the email that went out that day about this chapter. 
  • Not only was the book easy to read, but it's clear to me that Caitlin Zick poured her soul into writing this; there are practical steps to take for healing, safe spaces for growth, and a focus on self care which if you know anything about me, I'm all for that! 
  • I love that I could read Look at You, Girl again in a year and get a totally different message from it. Those are the kind of books we need more of. 

Ultimately, if you're looking for a guide to kickstart your soul into loving yourself the way God loves you, this is it. As an added treat, check out these golden truths from Look at You, Girl. 
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Self Care in 2019 :: Countdown Journalling

12/15/2018

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Guest Written by: Mandy R. | Owner and Creative of Manda Bands
The moment I realized I was journaling in three journals daily was the moment I realized I needed to downsize. I had a journal in which I’d write a few things I was grateful for each day, a journal documenting my devotional reading and a journal of personal affirmations. It wasn’t something I was looking forward to anymore; it became a chore, and I don’t know about you, but chores aren’t part of my self-care routine.

I’d seen on Instagram that Rachel Hollis (the “Girl, Wash Your Face” Rachel Hollis) was selling a new journal that focused on dreams and goals along with gratitude. I really liked the idea, but did not want to add on a fourth journaling item each day when I was already begrudgingly doing three. So I sat on my bed with my journals sprawled out in front of me and a fresh, clean notebook. I was going to downsize, stop stressing myself out and find a journaling style that I would (a) enjoy and (b) grow from.

My “Countdown Journal” was born out of my need for simplicity, order and motivation. I posted the idea on Instagram recently and it got a lot of positive feedback. I honestly didn’t think it was something that would make sense to anyone else but me, but Melania wanted me to share this prompt with the Exploit No More audience who may be struggling with journaling but don’t know where to start.

The Countdown Journal has five steps/tasks, with a possible sixth (if you wish). I’ll give you the outline and will go a little more in depth into each step/task.


  1.  List five dreams as if they’ve already come true.
  2. List four things you are grateful for.
  3. List three positive affirmations.
  4. List two goals you are hoping to achieve in the near future.
  5. List one action item you have completed to help you with one (or both) of the goals you’ve listed in Step #4.
  6. (Optional) Write a quote or something that resonated with you in something you’ve read or listened to today.
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STEP ONE 
The first step was taken directly from Rachel Hollis’ “Start Today Journal.” Write five dreams as if they’ve already come true for you. These are the “big, I think I’m going to throw up” dreams. Perhaps they are dreams you’ve never verbalized to anyone, including yourself. These will be the same each day.
  • I am debt-free.
  • I have graduated with my master’s degree.
  •  I have lost 100 pounds.

STEP TWO
The second step is also from Rachel’s journal but is something that I had been doing throughout 2018 already. Write four things that you are grateful for each day. For me, this helped put things in perspective. It didn’t matter if I wrote about the “little things” or the “big things” in life…I never once have had difficulty thinking of things I am thankful for and that’s helped me realize how very lucky I am.
  • The sun shining through the window.
  • That first sip of hot cocoa after shoveling.
  • Early morning snuggles with my kiddo.

STEP THREE
The third step is one that I’ve taken on from my fitness coach. Write three positive affirmations. These can be “I statements” or things that you need to remind yourself. You don’t need to necessarily believe them, because the idea of these is that if you keep telling yourself these items you will begin to believe them. You can write the same ones each day or you can switch it up based on what you’re needing most.
  • I am capable of doing difficult things.
  • I am worthy of love and respect.
  • Self-care is not selfish.

STEP FOUR 
The fourth step is also based on the “Start Today Journal.” Write two goals that you are hoping to achieve in the near future. These should be measurable and attainable short-term goals that may or may not help you get to the dreams that you’ve listed in the first step. You’ll write each of these down until you’ve completed them and then you’ll replace it with a new one. Don’t start with “I hope to…” or “I’ll try…” – be more positive! You can and you will! You don’t have to take on the world with these goals.
  • I will lose five pounds.
  • I will finish the semester with passing grades.
  • I will save $100 this month.

STEP FIVE
The fifth step is one that I added to hold myself accountable. Write one action item that you’ve completed to help you reach one of your short-term goals. I can write everything that I want to accomplish until I’m blue in the face. But without action, those goals you’ve just written are nothing but words. You don’t have to knock it out of the park every day, but try to be mindful of steps you’ve taken to reach your goals. Any progress is better than none.
  • I made my coffee at home instead of going to Starbucks.
  • I went to class even though I didn’t want to.
  • I worked out on what was supposed to be my rest day.

STEP SIX
The last step is completely optional, but it’s helped me remember things I’ve read or listened to that have made an impact on me. Write a quote or something that resonated with you in something you’ve read or listened to today. It can be something you’ve highlighted in the book you’re reading. It can be the bible verse you focused on in your daily devotional. It can be a quote you can’t get out of your head from your favorite podcast. It’s another small piece of inspiration that can help you when you most need it.

I’ve been doing this style of journaling for a month now and it’s really helped me think more positively and continue to take action towards my goals instead of sitting back. It’s also helped me think of how I want my life to be while remembering what I do have. I hope that this is something that you implement and love in 2019. If you have any questions or would like to chat, find me on Instagram @MamaMandabear.​


Some of Our Favorite Journals:

  1. 2nd Story Goods | 2nd Story Goods are a community of impassioned people working to design and produce pieces that do good, are good, and look good. Check out their burlap and leather journal options, here. 
  2. Horacio Printing | Horacio Printing is a Christian brand whose mission is to help individuals unlock their inner artist and connect with their God-given purpose.  10% of every product sold goes to A21, an international anti-trafficking organization. Check out their Sketchbook Journal, here. 
  3. Cause Gear | Cause Gear is a social enterprise established to compete on the world stage in design and quality while serving as a vehicle for consumers to help create sustainable social reform. Check out their recycled Craft Stock Journal, here. 
  4. Wit & Delight | Grow Where You're Planted Journal (one of Melania's personal faves) or their Classic Journal 
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